The ego uses a variety of predictable patterns because the basis of its thought system is judgment whose origin is due to sin, fear and guilt. Judgment is always one or the other. As you perceive a brother through judgment, you will project and judge on that brother until you perceive the results back. Once those email address details are perceived, you’ll use perception repeatedly to project and judge them even more.
Unfortunately, this uses both sides of the ego wrong mind and compounds the original error until the truth is well hidden. Handing over judgments for correction (forgiveness) stops the cycle.
Holy Relationships:
The ego uses special love and hate relationships, along with specialness (being different), to keep the illusion of separation going. Usage of these types of relationships as cause, is also the ego mind as cause; and the effect would be to continue separation between brothers because they are using the original separation. Remember cause and effect: Your brain you choose from, as cause, can lead to the corresponding consequences (effect).
This is simply not about you having to be alone or avoid relationships in life. It really is, however, all about the way you enter and use them within the mind.
The choice that may set you free would be to elect to have your relationships be Holy Relationships. You need to be the person practicing forgiveness in every of your relationships, even though you are the only 1. It is “special” and soon you transform it “Holy.” To see another as a brother, a prerequisite to going home, holds true Perception which shines a light of truth on you both. The ego cannot prevail against Oneness because it is not real.
Form and Content:
A Course in Miracles (ACIM) is very clear that form does not matter. There is nothing in ACIM about behavior and when you judge a brother on his / her behavior, that is the same side of the ego mind. They may be acting from the ego “wrong” mind; nevertheless, you are judging from the ego “right” mind. To the ego, one judgment is the same as any other.
What the Course says is that content matters. Content is the mind. ACIM concerns itself with you knowing that you can pick the Holy Spirit Right Mind as your internal Teacher thereby producing a different cause and effect.
Everything you or another does in form (behavior) will not matter. However listed below are two questions to ask yourself:
When I acted, did I act from the Holy Spirit Right Mind? (Content)
Is my interpretation of my buddy from the Holy Spirit Right Mind? (Content)
You won’t have peace unless you can answer “yes” to both. Choose again if you want to. It really is never too late.
There is Only One of Us:
Once you judge a brother, you are using the ego mind as cause for that judgment to become a real effect. For this reason we emphasize that everything you see in another must be forgiven in yourself first. Here’s why: (1) You cannot see fault (judgment) in another unless you chose from that part of the split mind in the first place; (2) You cannot judge everything you don’t already believe to be true since it is based on the actually chose from; and (3) Judgment about another is a statement of the guilt retained in your thoughts from the initial separation because you are choosing to use the ego mind. It really is what your location is still holding onto fear and guilt rather than choosing correction (forgiveness) for the truth.
un curso de milagros Absolutely anyone who turns up and provides you with a chance to heal your mind is a gift you should use. Turn it right into a Holy Relationship. This is one way you will return your personal mind to God, and how others eventually see it for themselves. Hold the light of forgiveness gives all minds an opportunity to create a different choice. Judge plus they run and hide further into darkness and error.
A Call for Love:
Attack is a conscious mind behavior predicated on projection, judgment and perception. The ego’s point would be to protect separate identity and for that reason, all attack is often a call for love, or forgiveness, which is joining. The more determined you are to know the truth about yourself and a brother, the more you’ll choose against the ego’s attacks in favor of correction (forgiveness) from the proper Mind.
Responding with love can mean many things and sometimes, it can even mean no response. Other times, you might need a boundary or even to take some action. To respond with love, you absolutely must be practicing forgiveness and utilizing the Right Mind to turn over all attack and judgment. The Holy Spirit will provide you with a solution in the event that you completely turn to that Right Mind for help. “Completely” may be the key word.
Eventually you see no attack (error) occurred and that is to know the reality about you as well as your brother. There is absolutely no defense necessary (“defenselessness” on the Split Mind diagram). Once you share your willingness never to see error, you have shared what you would like to help keep and learn on your own. What you share you find you have.
Sharing:
Sharing means to allow yourself to give to another what you need them to possess. Your only reason behind doing this is basically because it is what you need to have on your own. You’re teaching them what you want to be yours. Teaching is instruction of ideas and principles. Do this and you will find you own it because you’ve literally said, “Give back if you ask me what I’ve taught you.”